DOLCE VITA : THE SWEET LIFE

21/04/2015 "女人该独立的三个方面： 经济独立， 思想独立，情感独立。" 记得从小就对自己说过长大以后要像我妈咪一样当个铁娘子。 如果有一天只剩下自己一个人背着全世界的负担 我也不用害怕 因为我不会没有了谁而生存不下去。 靠山山倒 靠男人男人跑 倒不如靠自己更好。 当个独立女王就是要有能力靠自己爬到顶峰（或许你和我的目标不一样 这没关系）。 -经济独立 想买什么就买什么 不用张开双手（腿）跟别人掏。 -思想独立 不必让别人牵着鼻子走 能有自己原则和想法。 -情感独立 别那么傻只把他一个摆在人生的重心 委屈妥协只为了留他的心。 有时候无论在友谊或事业上掏心掏肺的付出然后希望得到回报时， 你总避免不了一些会为了自己的利益而踩著別人的屍體往上爬。 往往觉得交的都会是一辈子的麻吉好友 怎么知道其实有哪个已经在你背后捅了一刀又一刀。 和你最珍惜最疼惜的人在一起 你又怎么知道对方到底是真心对待还是假意啊。 交友滿天下,知己有幾人？ 独立的确能避免自己受到别人的伤害 但独立最总还是会伤到自己。 精神上的紧绷，体肉上的疲惫，一个人坚强的走下去。 当一位二十一世纪的女人要懂得醒目，因为我们比起以往的女人好运多了。 我们能有自己的想法 能作出决定 能追往自己的梦想。 我妈也说过，"爱自己才能爱别人。" 记得 要疼爱自己多一点点。 不喜欢女人独立的，我们不要也罢。 period.

05/6/2014 I'm sitting on the sofa, procrastinating while acting really busy on my laptop switching from this social window to that. 2.20 a.m., I should be well in bed going into my first/second phase of sleep. If Mom was still in KL i'd probably be catching the rest of my drama that I kept on pause on the player. I just had this sudden whim to write about the past few days and nights, how I sort of painstakingly(?) went through them. But then, I've had some alcohol earlier on and I just feel so, so lazy to type it out. (excuses!) Let's just say that I didn't have to endure everything in such a harsh way (but I did), didn't have to quickly replenish my emotions to the brim in three days over and over (yet I did), didn't have to tell myself not to have high expectations and yet secretly hoped (still I did). What, yeah contradicting myself and putting many, many things that seem unrelated together and then turn on the water faucet and allow my salty ...

03/03/2014 Sometimes all you need is an escape. A temporary one that could give you shelter and solace. When you run, you'd never know where you'd hide. You'll have a sixth sense that tells you it is safe. The best way to describe it is that it is a place where you can see them, but they can't. For all you know; it might be some spot that isn't that hidden at all. I just want to be alone somewhere. Somewhere I can hide and bury myself for a while. A teeny tiny moment, that is all I am asking for. Even if you see me, just let me be. For when I'm done, I promise I would emerge from this cloud. This thick, foggy sky that is encompassing me right now. Because I feel safe even when I seem lost. It is just me and myself. Just for now. I know it will consume and suffocate me if I remain for long. Do not worry, just give me a little while more. period.

14/07/2013 Love is probably like a freshly-cut piece of cloth. Unprocessed, untouched, free from any sort of workmanship. It started off in its purest form after production, waiting to be worked on and transformed into something spectacular by eager hands. Everything is good; it always is in the beginning. But when the work starts, the wear on the piece of cloth starts. With craftsmanship that might not be up to par, the cloth begins fraying, tearing, ripping.. the list goes on. A pair of hands that had only wished for the best, might have dreamt a little big, demanded more and probably expected too much. Under circumstances like this, that pair of hands would most likely drown in disappointment if he/she did not achieve their visual goal. The higher the expectations, the greater is the disappointment. But also, if that pair of hands made the right cut, executed it with some patience, enjoyed the process with a dash love, and worked with a plain big heart, he/she would...

21/11/2012 When things in your life seem , almost  too much to handle, When 24  Hours in a day is not  enough, Remember the mayonnaise jar and 2 cups  of coffee. A professor stood before his philosophy class. And had some items in front of him. When the class began, wordlessly,  He picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then asked the students, if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.  The professor then picked up a box of pebbles andpoured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was. The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else.  He asked once more if the jar was full.  The students responded with a unanimous '...

16/10/2012 “We dated and she’s an incredibly important person that I lived with for a long time, but it’s about that time in a relationship that I was going through; you’re in a relationship because you need help, but that’s not necessarily why you should be in a relationship. And that’s skinny. It doesn’t have weight. Skinny love doesn’t have a chance because it’s not nourished.” — Justin Vernon of Bon Iver, on Skinny Love. Her: well. I really thought of giving up. but.. I dare not. sometimes giving up is even harder than trying. I'll just try I guess. love or bread? I'll choose love. what? I sound desperate? oh really?  *shrugs I don't know. but I don't think I can live without love. the love of my family. the love of my friends. and of course, the love of my loved one. I'm a very insecure person. it makes me an unconfident one, too. I'll try my best to do everything. hoping to get praised by others, especially my parents. ju...

13/10/2012 cheese. -You know what, blogger killed my post by screwing the final product and AUTOSAVING THE WRONG THING. Dude, i poured my heart every single time i post. t('- ' )t But I get frustrated if I dont post what i originally wanted to say, so I'm gonna type again. It was supposed to be up before 12am, damned. Blogger better not f this up again. *exhales.- I just had the drive to post something up here for you, and I dont usually do that. So this means that this is special okay. HAPPY NINETEENTH CHEESE! This is the 7th time I'm wishing and keep counting ass :D I'm glad that I still get to wish you with this much enthusiasm now, especially ever since your lc period from f3 onwards. Hahaha joking, no one could ever beat me in this area right? *smirks Initially, i was just going to post some stuff that.. I dont know how to describe that. Anyway, I thought I might as well dedicate this top post for you. You can not read the ones below ...